Im back!

I was back to KL last Friday night and today start working again >.<
I miss the time when I was in Shanghai~ I hope I don't need to work for other again so that I can do whatever I like and earn for myself

Tonight after work I will go back and upload my photo to FB, at the same time I'll also write my shanghai diary here^^ Ganbate!

I was sitting in the car for 20 minutes without moving just now. I've only one question in my mind "why can't I have my car?"

When i was leaving the office just now, i really feel want to back cheras to dinner with my dad and meet my own friend. But I never ask for permission with him, I can't go back without asking him! Why can't I meet my family or friend when i want to?

This question has been asking in my mind for almost a year, and the answer is always because of to save the car maintenance/installment money. Yes it is correct and i very appreciate him to let me using his car to work.

But everything is in permission if I use his car, I really want bao zha!!!
I still remember when the first time i ask to use his car, he ask me very seriously that whether I can afford and be responsible when driving his car. At that time I already thought that has the feeling like bullying me. I felt so upset and very uncomfortable. How could he talk to me like this? Maybe You'll think that's nothing wrong with the question, but you got to know the way he asking, it was really......

Ok, why do I need my own car? Firstly, the most important is: I want to meet my family and friends when I want to. It is easy and simple. But I can't do it if I drive his car, I got to ask permission first before I go to a place. And I also have to promise him to back home at what time and tell him who do I meet, where is the place and bla bla bla...

I really need a space, ok? I need my family (my dad is lonely), i need my friends (I need them when I miss them, when i am down, when we have gathering), i need to buy things, i need to go salon, i need to buy a birthday card, valentine's card, or a christmas present to surprise you too... Why I can't go to the embassy to apply the visa? Why I can't be your runner and help you when you are not free? Have you think of this before?

Yes, I will need to spend a few hundred to my car every month, I need to pay petrol every week, I will need to pay for roadtax/ insurance every year and I will need to maintain my car eg. change tyre or service car...definitely every car owners are having this problem and this is the process.

I really really want to do my own thing...yes, you are right, I can do at your home, but it's different...do you understand that?

I am not a little girl, I am not your daughter...
I am an adult. I am a human. I hope you can understand my situation and support me,.. ok?

We need to change...we need to solve the problem...
If we not solve this problem, it will become a big bomb and explode one day, I don't want this happen before we get married. We need to understand each other's need before we getting married. I always side you without thinking my own feeling, whether I agree or I like or not, and you know it right?

We cannot like the same thing and make the same decision sometimes, but we got to respect each other to make a more comfortable answer. If we still can't choose the same solution/ answer/ decision, we got to give each other some space to avoid argument or calm down. And now i need this.

Remember, It is a process, and we got to go through it together...

上海 Shanghai

夜上海~夜上海~


没错哦！我要去上海了哦！
公司有展览会在那里，我会在那里逗留10天，头五天会是工作，之后就去玩罗！


有人介绍我去杭州或苏州走一趟，我本身都很想过去但还没时间找资料。

本月十四号就会离开了哦！好开心哦！希望一切顺利 ^^

Stop Snoozing Alarm

People with children would probably tell you how much they would like to be able to sleep in. They remember the good old college days of staying up until 2 in the morning, then sleeping until noon. Well, don't feel too bad, research has shown that those who are early to rise are more productive throughout the day, feel less stress and actually feel less tired than those who sleep later. How does that sound? Wouldn't it be nice to be more productive during the day? What about less stressed? And who wouldn't like feeling less tired? Well, if this sounds nice to you, then read on, as what follows are some tips to help you break the snooze alarm habit, and get you up and going earlier in the day.

• Move your alarm clock While having your alarm next to the best is convenient, it is not the right place for it if you are trying to break the snooze alarm habit. Instead put it across the room, on a dresser, near the light switch, or anywhere that requires you to get up to turn it off. If you are actually out of bed, you are much more likely to get up rather than hit the snooze. If you use your cell phone instead of an alarm clock, the concept still applies, have it close enough to hear, but far enough away that you must get out of bed to turn it off.

• Get a new alarm clock One great way to get out of the snooze bar habit is to get a new alarm clock that does not offer this feature. If you don't have a snooze bar, sleeping those 12 extra minutes can really be a hassle with all the buttons you have to push to reset the alarm. And, if you do fiddle with your alarm, by the time you get it reset, you will probably ready to get up, or awake enough to anyway

• Change your tone or sound Many people are not woken up right away by the sound of their alarm clock because they become accustomed to the sound. So avoid this by changing the sound of your alarm every couple of weeks. This works best if you have a cell phone as your alarm clock.

• Make it difficult Put your alarm clock somewhere where it is more difficult to get to turn off, and then by the time you do, you will probably be awake enough to stay up. Try in a drawer, under the bathroom sink (if you have a bathroom attached to your room), under your bed, behind something, etc.

• Make a routine Being early to rise is a lot easier when you make it a daily thing. So, commit yourself to being good about it, and not pushing the snooze button for a couple of weeks. Try waking up earlier Monday-Friday and you will find yourself doing it naturally in a week or two.

• Give yourself a reason Many of us do not wake up early because we do not have tasks that need to be done early. However, if you make a schedule, or a set item you will take care of in the morning, you will have a reason NOT to push the snooze button. So, don't begin to wake up early for nothing. Do things early in the morning. It can really be anything, from going for a jog, to paying bills or just cooking breakfast for yourself or family. When you have a reason to get up, you are more likely to do so.